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The term domme is a coined pseudo-French female variation of the slang ''dom'' (short for ''dominant''). There is confusion on its pronunciation, with some pronouncing it identically to ''dom'' and some pronouncing the final ''e'' as a second syllable, e.g. saying ''dom-MAY'' or ''DOM-may''. It appears that more BDSM authorities prefer the first pronunciation (identical to ''dom''), by analogy to one-syllable French-derived words like ''femme'' or ''blonde''. [http://www.fhp-inc.com/writings/essential_domme.html [http://www.soulshaven.f2s.com/intro_terms.php3 .

Older woman-younger man relationships are much more common in female dominant relationships than among vanilla couples.


PROFESSIONAL VERSUS LIFESTYLE DOMINATRICES


The term ''dominatrix'' is most commonly used to describe a Professional Dominant woman (or ''pro-domme'') who charges money to engage in fantasy play with Submissive clients, but in reality most dominatrices are not professionals, but Lifestyle Dominant s. A lifestyle dominant is a person who is assertive and in control of their relationships both inside and outside the bedroom.

Women who engage in female domination recreationally are known as Dommes, Dominatrices, or simply Dominants, though they are rarely referred to as Dominatrices. A high percentage of dominatrices are lifestyle dominants, but some simply play the dominatrix role because it is a high-paying profession.

It is common for professional dominatrixes who are also lifestyle Dommes to have both paying clients and a "personal slave" or slaves, who are not paying clients. A personal slave will typically perform a Domme's housework and run errands for her. A personal slave may or may not live with his Domme. Most Dommes engage in sexual activity with personal slaves, but this is not always the case. Some Dommes limit the sexual activity to the slave performing oral sex on them, while others engage in the full gamut of sexual activities.

Most ''famous'' dominatrices (with a few notable exceptions) are professional dominants, since most other people's sex lives remain private.

The stereotyped image of a dominatrix is of a woman wearing a rubber Catsuit and Thigh-length Boots with high heels. Many professional dominatrices do indeed wear similar outfits for their work in order to meet client expectations. However, for non-professional dominatrices, the question "What does a dominatrix wear?" is best answered "Whatever she likes!"


NOTABLE DOMINATRICES

  • The 19th-century British dominatrix Mrs Theresa Berkley , inventor of the Berkley Horse .

  • The American author, sex therapist, and counsellor Gloria Brame is also a lifestyle dominant.

  • The French professional dominatrix Maîtresse Françoise (real name Annick Foucault ) has written a book about her experiences as a dominatrix

  • Ilsa Strix is a Los Angeles based professional dominatrix who has appeared in female domination videos and has been romantically linked to '' The Matrix '' creator Larry Wachowski .

  • Professional dominatrix Mistress Matisse is also a columnist for the Seattle weekly alternative newspaper '' The Stranger '' and a noted blogger.

  • Mia Kennedy is a profesional lifestyle Dominatrix from Sydney Australia. Outside of her dominant work at Salon Kitty she produces tools of the trade, notably cages.



FICTIONAL DOMINATRICES

  • The novel '' Venus In Furs '', by Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch , deals with a man who is so besotted with a woman he becomes her sex slave. Also, the song of the same name by The Velvet Underground deals with the same subject matter.

  • The film '' Preaching To The Perverted '', starring Guinevere Turner, depicts a dominatrix.

  • The '' has featured a recurring professional dominatrix character, Lady Heather , who is depicted in a sympathetic manner.

  • The film '' Eating Raoul '' features Doris the Dominatrix, who, when off the job, is a married mother.

  • The film '' Maîtresse '', starring Gérard Depardieu and Bulle Ogier , depicted a professional dominant.

  • The 1999 film '' Payback '', features Lucy Liu as the dominatrix Pearl.

  • Several of the stories in the comic book series Sin City feature the character of Gail, a Prostitute and dominatrix whose speciality is knot-tying. She is one of the authority figures in Old Town, a part of the city run by female prostitutes. In the movie adaptation, she is played by Rosario Dawson .

  • The popular DC Comic Books character Catwoman bears a strong dominatrix Motif : her stylized mask, the skintight outfit and the whip, in combination with her strong-willed and at the same time sultry personality are the most striking of these characteristics.



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EXTERNAL LINKS

  • [http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/femdom.html The Dominatrix in Print and Other Media] — detailed bibliography

  • It's a living: Dominatrix — professional domme article

  • "I Was a Teenage Dominatrix" — professional domme article from ''Salon'' about award-winning author Shawna Kenney, who put herself through college in D.C. working as a dominatrix

  • "Dominatrix Lifestyle Books" List of books related to Dominatrix lifestyle